It's amusing, you always read, "I was cheated on-" blah blah blah but you never hear "I cheated on-" Everyone wants to play victim even the perpetrators of the crime cowardly point fingers when cornered with the truth. No one on this earth can honestly say they didn't know the damage they were doing because history is as good an example as any of what happens after the selfish act is over with. It is my belief that the compassion and love that held so many families together back in the days of our grand parents has turned to ash in these recent years, leaving humans with the sickening truth that they live a falsehood and 9-5 job life and what I mean by that is after that last hour of the day is cleared, the children are tucked in and now one is allowed to step over the vows and promises to their significant other and indulge in their greedy performances of "pleasure". How once can walk through this world today and tell me that true love still exists, I cannot answer. Know this who has yet to cheat on their spouse, you are not at the bottom and while the desire and the fantasy begs you to allow it to be a reality, you have to be better than that, stronger than what's become pathetically acceptable in the days of social media and instant gratification. You can ALWAYS break up, divorce before you go out and do such a horrible thing. The thing that truly depresses me is, I'm 23 years old, was raised to treat women right, respect their choices, and above all never let myself fall to that lowest point and all I see before me as I walk through this life is people hurting one another, so badly, so callously and inhumane that it makes me want all of you gone. I grew up a loving person but all of you who took the easy way out and laid out imperfections of our race as beings of the highest intelligence, have ruined this life for me for I can trust none of you because each of you blend in to well with the others so now I must walk this life alone. Thank you for reading this, if some of you find the courage to stay strong in your relationships/ marriage, know that you better than all the others.